How long have you been doing what you do, and how did you become a EFT mindset coach, Intuitive healer And Transformational Coach?
To answer this question, it’s probably best that I share with you a defining moment, and a resulting “compelling story”, that brought me to where I am today – coaching mamas like you on exactly what to do to heal their energy blocks, tap into their fierce authenticity and make their dream life a reality. That defining moment in my life happened in 2011.
It wasn’t until the birth of my second child, after I came off of the high of giving birth that I realised I couldn’t keep living the lie anymore. I was married to someone who was more of a friend than a lover or a life partner from the age of 19 and I wasn’t in a good space. I knew I was destined to have more children I could feel them around me and my then husband was totally against the idea, it was not a good situation to be in. I know many other women who can relate to this.
At the time I also remember dreaming of kissing someone and fire works going off in the background and I would wake up in a sweat crying it was that powerful. It was real.
I remember thinking “There is more to my life than this”. I also wanted to feel that amazing soul connection that is in my dreams! This inner turmoil was going on even though it looked like I had the ‘perfect’ life but I couldnt push the thoughts and my little inner voice away anymore. One day I hit rock bottom and was crying to Pat (my now fiance) at my mums house in the garden saying that the only way out for me would be taking my life.
Unbelievable but so believable…I had a car accident not long afterwards – and I nearly died.
And I realised I created it. I created the the car crash and a light bulb went off.
I decided I really DID want to LIVE.
But I couldn’t continue living like that. And I began my healing journey. I found the courage to leave my marriage (he actually left me which is what I wanted) and I decided “I am ready to LOVE and be in love” and then the most obvious (strange at the time!) thing happened I fell in love with my best friend Pat from high school.
Now Pat will tell you it was love at first sight for him in high school but I couldn’t commit at the time I was in a bad space and I went off the rails at the time with my own parents divorce and I had a lot on my plate helping my mother. Anyhow, fast forward now! Pat and I have had 2 boys together and I home birthed my 3rd boy and free birthed my 4th. That was a HUGE spiritual moment and my mind/body/spirit has never been quite the same ever since.
I’ve had HUGE spiritual growth since trusting in my body in that way and deciding that I could do it by myself. It was SOO empowering. I just TUNED into my body. I had POWERFUL dreams. This was the birth to take my power back for all 3 pervious births where I had given my power away in some form. All of my previous babies had had shoulder distochia (shoulders stuck) and I had a dream the week before that I was going to know what to do. He did get stuck and it all happened exactly as I had dreamt I knew exactly what to do!
I gave myself PERMISSION to be fiercly authentic, I fully trusted in something bigger than myself and my life has never been the same ever since.
Everyone kept saying things like “hang in there to your marriage”, “don’t be silly you can’t home birth your baby will die” and all kinds of FEAR. I made a decision NOT to listen to anyone but for the first time TRUSTING my inner voice and loving myself.
I kept getting ‘downloads’ from the universe it was incredible (I still do!). I worked on self love, meditating, gratitude and I went on a massive SHIFT since my free birthing experience.
Since that moment on, I made a commitment to immerse myself in absolutely everything that had to do with living my fierce authenticity, personal growth, reiki, chakras, EFT, energy healing: I got into the law of attraction, and women began seeking me out to help them heal their own blocks and energy blocks and a business was born!
I made my intentions to become the person I wanted to be, to be home with my children and run a successful business and watched all of the pieces show up to support that unfolding.
It’s been incredible!
I cleaned up my inner life, took responsibility for everything and everyone in it and started teaching women how they could do the same: I watched their confidence, spiritual life, family life and even bank accounts SKY ROCKET too!
I have since made a commitment to dedicate the rest of my professional life to helping other mum’s and women, breakthrough their inner blocks, heal from narsissitic relationships, make more money and have the FREEDOM to create the life, business they’ve always dreamed of. As well as being a Goddess mother, I am also following my soul calling!!!
I’ve worked with many private clients, I lived my dream of a happy enriching FULL family life, it’s better than ever, (although we are still human and have our own contrasts) but we’re living how we want to live, home schooling our kids and having it all; and I have created “The Spiritual Mama’s Alchemy Tapping Into YOU Tapping into LOVE System™, a series of 10 important inner and outer steps every women, mum, sister, lover of life needs to apply to get out of her own way, and live the life she’s always dreamed of without FEAR!
If this resonates with you I invite you to go and check out the program under the ‘work with me’ tab. X